Hi lovelies! This is my first review post so just some background: I completed my solemnisation + wedding banquet in October 2018! It was so, so, wonderful and I had so much fun! As I really miss my wedding, I decided to blog about it so i can relive the moments retrospectively~
I’m going to start with reviews! I had to plan my wedding in less than a year because we did not expect to get married this year! We only found our fengshui master in January this year and got our date finalised in February – which meant we only had 8 months to plan! Madness I know. But while the start of my wedding planning wasn’t so smooth (cos we rushed ourselves and ended up making horrible choices), we became smarter and started reading reviews and asking around first before deciding on anything.
TIP #1: ALWAYS RESEARCH FIRST! Don’t be pressurised to sign a package on the very first visit – learn how to say no!
If anyone is pushy, you should take it as a warning sign already! Trustworthy vendors will respect your decision to consider and not engage in pushy sales. After the visit, do your research before signing up with them! I did not do that for my very first package signed and immediately regretted after i went home and found out that i didn’t get a good deal. There are many sites where you can look for reviews, e.g. Bridestory, Singapore Brides forum, and facebook groups (which you can ask your friends who are in it to invite you to). And of course, blogs like mine! 😉 Remember to sign only when you are comfortable! If you still have reservations, it is better not to do it or you will just worry throughout the entire planning process.
As i’m super long-winded and I have quite a few vendors I would like to review, imma split the reviews into 3 parts.
Part I – Prewedding
Part II – Actual Day Essentials
Part III – Other Vendors & Misc. stuff
So now, REVIEW TIME!
PREWEDDING VENDORS
1. Fengshui Master – Jason Liew (Can Xuan Ge 参玄阁)
Rating: 2.5/5
The key players in the fengshui scene are Master Long Tian Xiang and Master David Tong but their waiting times are ridiculous. Called Master David Tong in early Jan and he told us his next available consultation date is mid-March. Simisai?? So girls, if you are planning to wed on an auspicious date, please find your fengshui masters more than one year in advance! As we did not want to wait, we called up a few other fengshui masters and decided to go with Master Jason Liew as he was available for consultation in the same week. We smsed him the details required (i.e. DOB and time of birth) immediately after the call confirmation and met up with him the same weekend. During the session, he shared with us briefly about our bazi and came prepared with a list of auspicious dates for the wedding ceremony. He then told us he will supply us with further information on the GDL and An Chuang dates after we decide on the date we want. We paid him during that session. After discussing with our parents, we texted him back and he told us he will “try to get back soon as he is busy” and to remind him to reply as he will forget. Righhhhhttttttt. Alarm bells started ringing. Now it becomes my responsibility to remind you because you are busy?? Huh??
So to cut the long story short, he really forgot about us and we had to chase him multiple times for replies. He would also say things such as “will check when i get home”, but did not reply us until i reminded him. The last straw was this: He gave us two different GDL dates on two instances. He initially texted us the GDL date to be 30 Sep, but in the final document he sent us, he indicated 1 Oct as the GDL date. When I clarified with him, he said he will check, but never came back to us. Seriously, at that point of time I was so fed up already that I gave up. I went to check the Chinese Calendar on my own and decided on the better date for our GDL. While he was friendly, knowledgeable, and charged reasonably (definitely cheaper than consulting the two masters abovementioned), I would say go for others if you have time. The time wasted chasing him and waiting for him to reply is not worth it. 2.5 stars for him only because he was quick in giving us the main date and we could proceed to book our banquet.
2. Bridal Studio / Prewedding Shoot – Odelia Bridal
MUA & Hair – Iman Lishi (provided by Odelia)
Ratings (for prewedding shoot): 4.8/5
Ratings (for MUA prewedding look): 4.5/5
There was one fine weekend in February when many of the bridal studios had open houses. So we made use of the opportunity to visit all of them in Tanjong Pagar.
Tip: Visit when there are open houses because that’s when you can get the best deals!
Honestly, I was so sure I was going to sign with digio bridal because I follow them on IG and I love their gowns so much. But…when we visited them, it didn’t feel like it was right? The consultants there somehow gave me this bochup feeling…you could feel it when you talk to them. Like they are doing so well, they don’t need your business. I felt a bit unsettled after the visit because I really thought they are the one. Their sister company Rico-A-Mona was so much better though. At least we felt welcomed and the consultant was bubbly and shared much advice with us. We even got a referral discount because our friend was with them. The gowns were gorgeous as well, and the consultant was so eager to let you try on the gowns lol. However, what broke the deal for us was the photography – i didn’t feel like it was particularly outstanding and there were a number of surcharges. So we decided to KIV, and the consultant again was so nice about it and told us to think it through. Although i didn’t sign with them in the end, i must give her two thumbs up!
After visiting a few more bridal studios, our last stop was Odelia Bridal. We heard only positive things about them (nothing negative!) so we had pretty high hopes. Our very first meeting was with Jovin and she was so sweet. Basically, Odelia is run by husband and wife team Rex and Jovin – Rex is the photographer and Jovin the gown designer. This make things easier when you want to negotiate things as you are talking to the lao ban niang herself 😛 Unlike the other studios where they will say they cannot make the decision as they need to ask their boss etc. It was also somehow comforting to have a husband and wife team take care of your wedding needs? It was really nice and easy to talk to Jovin and she was so earnest about everything. We managed to negotiate a pretty good deal to include everything we need. So lo and behold, we signed with them after the visit (and i didn’t even look at their gowns LOL).
Fast forward 3 months later and it was time for our prewedding shoot. Okay so before i go on, I just want to state that the only qualm i have about Odelia is that they do not send you reminders for your appointments. So you need to double confirm with them the appointment date and log it into your calendar IMMEDIATELY. Hence, if you are a dodohead like me and would appreciate a reminder, then you might want to take note.
Okay back to prewedding shoot (PWS), we had gown fitting one month before. I felt a bit cheated when I saw another bride during the same timeslot as me because Jovin told me the fitting will be exclusive, i.e. if it is your timeslot, no other brides will be doing the fitting with you. But apparently not la. Not a big deal cos we still had 1-1 service (since there were 2 consultants), but y’know, still a bit cheat feelings ma tio bo. I took quite long, changed many gowns, but the consultant who served me (can’t remember if it was Wei Ting or Eunice) was still very patient and entertained me. Haha so okay, good service recovery lol.
We then met up with Rex a week before the shoot to share with him some of our ideas and what we want to achieve from the shoot. Of course me likey likey korean style! And i must say – Odelia’s indoor studio backdrops DO have the korean feel!!! So i’m really happy about that. Rex was very accommodating and shared with us some ideas he has as well. Awesome.
I also had my makeup trial a few days before the shoot and my assigned MUA was Iman Li Shi. The trial was just makeup though (and it was mainly for her to know more about my skin condition, the look i’m going for, so she knows how long she needs on that day), no hairstyle included. I was pretty satisfied with what she has done so no complaints.
Day of PWS!! Hubs and I were so excited! We were also very, very, lucky! It was raining in the morning, but no biggie, because we had to do makeup first. We just prayed hard that the rain will stop in the afternoon because we are going out – and it did!!! So weather was amazing because it was clear and it wasn’t hot cos of the rain earlier – super thankful!!
Makeup & hair took about 2 hours for me and 0.5 hours for hubs. I really appreciated Li Shi bringing along an assistant so it was faster (which meant that we didn’t have to wake up so early LOL)! Odelia also provided a massage chair so hubs could use it while waiting for me to be done with my makeup. Super thoughtful!
FOUR gowns in total for the PWS – 2 indoor, 2 outdoor. Groom had 3 suits! I chose 2 white gowns and 2 coloured gowns. And another fabulous thing about Odelia is that they don’t differentiate between indoor and outdoor gowns! Whichever gowns you love, they will try their best to bring it out for you!!! Unlike other bridal studios whereby they will make you pick from a limited selection of outdoor gowns 😦
I really loved the first look Li Shi did for me – very Korean style so yay! Anyway this is the only close up photo of me you will see which is not mosaic-ed (since must show you guys how the make up look), but i will mosaic all the other close up photos la cos i shy HAHAHA…:P
Hubs and I kept laughing during the indoor shoot because it was really fun – we had flower petals thrown at us, Rex had to direct my woody hubs to pose better, etc. We really enjoyed ourselves 🙂 For ref, we did 7 indoor scenes in total and we took about 1.5 hours. Eventually we selected photos from 5 indoor scenes. Some photos:
Got the Korean feel right!!! Neo mu haeng bok hae!!
However, IMPORTANT TO NOTE that we took these at their previous studio along Amoy Street! They have since moved to Tras Street, and the indoor scenes will be different from what we had – so please check with them!
After the indoor shoot, Li Shi helped me touched up and changed my hairstyle again! So in total I had 3 different looks 🙂 However, i didn’t really like my third look. She recommended putting my hair up in a bun as there will be wind near the beach (which we will be heading for our outdoor shoot), and I agreed as I didn’t want my hair to be flying everywhere. It looked good in the mirror, my mum and hubs were pleased. But, but in the end…my face turned out fat in photos 😦 Sobs T.T
Tip: Know your face shape! Try out the hairstyle and TAKE A FEW PHOTOS first to see how you look like in photos and whether you like it or not. Mirrors are deceiving 😦
But ok la, Photoshop is there to save the day in the end so it isn’t so bad, LOL.
SO WHERE DID WE GO FOR OUR OUTDOOR SHOOT?
1. Kent Ridge Park
This is a mega surprise!! Rex recommended this to us as we wanted a forest theme outdoor shoot, and the park was filled with so many pretty places to shoot at! I am surprised this is not that known yet. Really, really recommend taking your photos here!
There were a few shots on a flight of staircase that came out really gorgeous and artistic, but we couldn’t choose them as we maxed out our edited shots already, and we kiam siap don’t want to pay more 😦 I don’t know where it is exactly, but it is near the parking area so couples can consider going there!!
2. East Coast Park
It was May, and the bougainvilleas were blooming! So we thought it was a perfect time to head to ECP for our shoot. Totally not disappointed as our photos turned out amazing! Some of our friends even thought we went overseas!
Rex even had to stand on a chair to take this photo, what dedication lol!
Anyway, i need to mention this: Rex will drive you to the outdoor shoot location himself! Isn’t this so sweet!!! So one, you save money on transportation (i believe no other bridal studios provide this service, at least those that i went to), which is a lot (at least $100?), and two, he knows exactly where to drive you to to get good shots so you don’t really need to recce yourself beforehand and tell the driver where exactly to bring you to. Double yay!
Finally, we ended off the day with Odelia’s signature rain shoot at their back alley:
This one is a good shot, best shot, must shot!! If you are with Odelia, must ask for it!! If in the end you don’t choose the photos also just take only. Hahaha. It was such a fun experience as Rex’s assistant (Ben) will spray water with a hose and you will huddle under the umbrella with your hubs while Rex click away on his camera. Waste water but the effect really very nice…
Overall, time well spent and we went home with happy hearts! Rex & Ben were a joy to work with!
One month later, our photos were ready for selection!
Another sweet gesture by Odelia was that they PRINTED out ALL copies of your photos and slot them neatly in an album so it is easier for us to browse through! I heard from my friends that other studios just let you choose off a computer, which can be tiring to look at after a while. Also, it might not reflect the actual colours as different computers have different resolutions! So my hubs and i were pleasantly surprised to get a hard copy album to choose from.
I tell you – you don’t know what is headache until you have to choose 30+ photos out of 200 photos for edits. So ok…now thinking back, maybe it is a good thing that my last look wasn’t that nice? LOL. I could easily strike out many photos because I looked fat. But it might be turn off for other brides too, because it might feel as if Rex didn’t capture the right angles? There were some questionable shots as well where our faces look weird, so…dump dump dump. Even though we dumped many photos, we still had close to 100 after the first cut. Sibeh sian. So then second cut was by scene – which scene we wanna keep and which scene we wanna throw. Some scenes only had one photo left, so that was easily dumped too, as photo albums require at least 2 – 3 photos per scene for it to flow nicely la. In any case, we still had wayyy too many photos after our second cut and we had to bear with the pain, close one eye and dump more photos away…Hais.
In summary, I minus only 0.2 stars out of 5 for our PWS with Odelia because a number of photos did not turn out as well as expected, but ironically, this was helpful in the end as we didn’t have to feel regretful dumping away so many photos, and did not feel compelled to purchase more photos.
Photo edits were done by another designer (i think she is hired on a part time basis?). Her replies were prompt, and she was very accommodating when we told her what additional edits we wanted. So no complaints!
Our photo album was GORGEOUS. We chose glass cover instead of the traditional leather kind. It was heavy but soooo worth it! No complaints for the canvas photo too. Good quality and it is YUUUGGGEEE.
3. Prewedding Shoot #2 – Yikeshu Bridal & Photography Studio
MUA & Hair – Jean (inhouse MUA)
Ratings (for prewedding shoot): 4.75/5
Ratings (for MUA prewedding look): 4.8/5
I did a second shoot! I think i am crazy because i actually loved the whole process and didn’t feel that tired. Lol.
Anyways, reason for doing a second shoot was because:
- I wanted to do a hanbok shoot
- I wanted a casual shoot
- I wanted to take photos at NTU (which is where my hubs and I met)
I thought it through and felt it wasn’t money savvy to do the hanbok shoot with Odelia Bridal because I could only get back a limited number of photos. If i am going to spend money renting the hanbok, why would I just want a few photos out of it? And that would also mean sacrificing other nicer photos for the hanbok photos. Somehow, Facebook knew what I was thinking (damn creepy) and kept showing me Yikeshu’s ad. They had this mega 25% off promo and I was tempted. There weren’t much reviews on them for prewedding (since they mainly did maternity and infant shoots), but their package price was too tempting so i went down to meet them anyway, because, why not? Just look see only ma. The samples they showed us were not bad la, average. But…their package WAS INSANE. Gowns, suits and makeup included, 10 hours indoor, and outdoor shoot, canvas photo, table top photo, 20 edited photos and the best part? All softcopies returned!!! For how much? Less than $900!! MADNESS!!!
We knew we had to take up the offer la. Like even though their photography didn’t impress us that much, i don’t think they will fail us also?? Cos after all we were just mainly gunning for the hanbok and casual shoot anyway, so as long as got shoot us in hanbok we happy liao lol.
We were assigned Raymond for our PWS! And i must say, we were very, very lucky because we were the last couple he was assigned to shoot at Yikeshu. (He has since moved on to Fine Artisans, Yikeshu’s sister company for more artistic shoots).
We could choose 4 gowns, 2 suits. But i didn’t even need all 4 gowns as I had my hanbok and casual outfits. Gown and suit selection were meh, tbh. Could tell many gowns were from Taobao because I added some of them to my cart. Lol. But ok la, that means the gowns are to my liking, just that the quality not so good and the selection not a lot la. So for brides who are particular about the gowns, then you might not want to consider la. They did add more gowns after my shoot though, so maybe that helps? Also note that outdoor gowns are VERY limited (told ya earlier!). But no biggie for me as I mainly wanted a casual outdoor shoot, so i brought my own dress.
I chose 2 white gowns in the end. 1 off-shoulder gown + hanbok for indoor shoot and 1 bustier gown + casual clothes for outdoor shoot. In case you are wondering about where I got my hanbok, i bought them in Korea! I got them at one of the first-level shops at Gwangjang Market (NOT the ultra premium ones at the hanbok area). The rental shops I went to in Singapore are charging $80 – $100 for 3 day rental (whut)?? Might as well just pay a bit more to own the hanboks, right?
[PSA: I’m renting/selling the hanboks if you are interested! $50 to rent one outfit for ONE WEEK, or $100 per outfit for sale. This is good quality, not Taobao kind!!!]
Indoor shoot: Not a lot of scenes but we like that Raymond tried a variety of styles and shots. We had the fun, quirky ones, and the raw, serious, intimate ones. One thing that hubs and i were extremely impressed about Raymond is that he actually asked if there is any kind of shots we wanted to take and he would oblige. Even though he knows all soft copies will be returned, instead of quickly finishing things, he actually make sure that we got all the shots we desired! Which is really damn gan dong.
Not bad la hor? Considering the price we paid?
We went to NTU for our outdoor shoot! NOTE: No transport provided hor! (Chargeable at $110 for 4 hours if you go with their transport).
If you were an NTU student, I really think should go back to take. So pretty leh the hive! And Raymond like damn happy cos he can be artsy fartsy with his shots lol.
Must give a shoutout to the in-house MUA Jean (who is the boss’ wife) as well! She was damn patient and meticulous in doing my makeup, and took extra measures to make sure my eyes were even (cos my eyes one big one small). I also grew smarter from my first PWS and insisted I didn’t want a bun. So for my outdoor shoot she loosely tied my hair up and sprayed damn a lot of hairspray so my hair won’t fly LOL.
And i was super pleased with the results!! I think i look damn pretty LOL BHB. And Raymond was able to capture angles pretty well. He does consider which angle you prefer before he takes the shot so kudos to him!
Hahaha some photos abit try-too-hard, but ok la got the artistic feel…
All in all, also a pretty enjoyable shoot.
A major +++ point was that the photos were in SUPER FAST. We got all our soft copies in Dropbox in like ONE WEEK? OMG??? This is why everybody loves Raymond. God bless Raymond.
We didn’t need to head down to the office to choose the photos as we got all softcopies returned, so everything in the dropbox were ours to keep MUAHAHAHAHA. What we then did was to choose the 20 photos we want edited and indicate the photo we want as canvas and table top photo. Raymond also sent the edited photos back to us faster than you can say Raymond (ok la, 2 days). Damn awesome la he. We also collected our canvas and table top photo in a month’s time iirc.
Our canvas photo from Yikeshu on the right, and photo album from Odelia 🙂
Overall, great experience. Loved the photos (especially for the price paid). Budget Brides out there can really consider – I think Yikeshu is pretty decent if you are not looking for something grand and spectacular. Other than the gown and suit selection (-0.25 stars), which needs improvement, nothing to complain about. Fussy brides who need a lot of gown options might want to think twice though.
4. Facial – Amelia (Direction Beauty)
318 Jurong East Street 31, Singapore 600318
If you are a Westie, you can consider finding Aunty Amelia! She is super experienced, and her rates are also reasonable. I paid $47/session, and the session is really comprehensive – basic cleansing, exfoliating, steaming, extracting, massage, masking, back massage. She even uses the metal roller thing. Whatever that is called. My skin conditioned improved and my MUA said it was more moisturised than before. So i guess it works!
Phew, that was loooooong. I hope I didn’t bore you to death. LOL.
If you are onz for Part 2 >>>>